Whenever you feel your life is not where it should be, turn yourself into the witness stage.
When you are a witness, you dont identity yourself with your mind. When you dont identify yourself with mind, you have reached your higest state. Here there are no complaints, no judgements, in this state you are eternally happy.
Why you feel down sometimes. When you are controlled by your mind, your innerself mildly reminds you that you are in a wrong place. At this moment, if you choose to be a witness then you have set yourself forth on the path of enlightenment.
And, if you have chosen to ignore, you condemn yourself to continue at avlower state, where oain, complaint s and judgement are avregular affair.
Your choice decides your state.